Friday, October 22, 2010

Man=Woman!? But yet!

Here is a Woman, who is as much educated as her Husband;
Who is working at office as much as he do;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like her husband, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to woman for their culinary achievements;

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much he do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt his home, his family, his ways and even his family name;

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while he sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make breakfast first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as he is, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;

But Yet!

If a man wakes up late – He might be tired!
If a woman wakes up late – She is lazy!

If a man doesn’t get vegetables – He is too busy!
If a woman doesn’t get vegetables – She is so irresponsible!

If a man doesn’t eat well – His wife is not taking care!
If a woman doesn’t eat well – Can’t she take care of herself!

If a man wants to see his parents – He should go!
If a woman wants to see his parents – Why does she go so often!

If a man gets married – He should take care of his family!
If a woman gets married – She should take care of his family!

If a man comes late from office – He is such a hard worker!
If a woman comes late from office – She don’t take care of home at all!

If a man changes after marriage – He sacrifices for her!
If a woman changes after marriage – She is ought to change!

If a man meets his friends – He can’t leave friends for wife!
If a woman meets her friends – She can’t leave husband for friends!

If a man takes his wife to an electronics store – He loves electronics a lot!
If a woman takes him to a jewelry store – Why don’t she understand that he feels so boring!

If a man watches an action movie – Why can’t she also watch along!
If a woman watches a soap serial – Why can’t she see something he will also like!

If a man had to cook on a day – How sweet he is!
If a woman had to skip cooking a day – Why don’t she get that eating out is not good for health!

If a man had to manage kids – He will be so stressed at office to do that!
If a woman had to manage kids – She should be able to manage both office and home equally!

But still they are equal right!?


  1. I once got this in mail actually.
    Things like this are age-old traditions that people accept without any questions. The societal bull-shit. A woman has to give up so much when she gets married. But nowadays things are changing for good and men are also actively involved in the parental and family things , which is great.

  2. Yup, I took preface from a mail itself but the "but still" copyrights reserved... :)

    We have to be thankful that present men are involving and understanding but still the older generations and society still have same opinions which is so tough to handle... It really hurts a lot... I wish it will change at least from our generation...


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