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Friday, October 22, 2010

Man=Woman!? But yet!

Here is a Woman, who is as much educated as her Husband;
Who is working at office as much as he do;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like her husband, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to woman for their culinary achievements;

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much he do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt his home, his family, his ways and even his family name;

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while he sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make breakfast first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as he is, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;

But Yet!

If a man wakes up late – He might be tired!
If a woman wakes up late – She is lazy!

If a man doesn’t get vegetables – He is too busy!
If a woman doesn’t get vegetables – She is so irresponsible!

If a man doesn’t eat well – His wife is not taking care!
If a woman doesn’t eat well – Can’t she take care of herself!

If a man wants to see his parents – He should go!
If a woman wants to see his parents – Why does she go so often!

If a man gets married – He should take care of his family!
If a woman gets married – She should take care of his family!

If a man comes late from office – He is such a hard worker!
If a woman comes late from office – She don’t take care of home at all!

If a man changes after marriage – He sacrifices for her!
If a woman changes after marriage – She is ought to change!

If a man meets his friends – He can’t leave friends for wife!
If a woman meets her friends – She can’t leave husband for friends!

If a man takes his wife to an electronics store – He loves electronics a lot!
If a woman takes him to a jewelry store – Why don’t she understand that he feels so boring!

If a man watches an action movie – Why can’t she also watch along!
If a woman watches a soap serial – Why can’t she see something he will also like!

If a man had to cook on a day – How sweet he is!
If a woman had to skip cooking a day – Why don’t she get that eating out is not good for health!

If a man had to manage kids – He will be so stressed at office to do that!
If a woman had to manage kids – She should be able to manage both office and home equally!

Man>=Woman
Woman<=Man
But still they are equal right!?

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

A tribute to my mobile

I am your most useful gadget ever, staying with u 24/7… Guessed me? I am not your ipod… I am not your laptop… I am not your camera… but still, I am a blend of many such gadgets… Yes… You got it… I am your mobile phone…


But my owner uses me mostly to connect with her dear ones and then for photos… Today let me talk about the photos I capture for her…

When you go to a mall, you liked something which you can’t afford and wanna add it to your wish list? Just pull me out… check around that no one is watching and click… :) (They won’t allow using me in many places like class rooms, malls, theaters… but I know you guys use me tactfully… :P)


You were dragged by a friend into book store and you really are not into books? I am there to give you company with songs and videos… And then, you found the cutest cover on a book? Just click… :)


You are carrying a bulky camera with many features but charging ended by the time you need it? Don’t worry friend, I am always there for you…


You saw a cute guy and wanna show him to your friends before you miss him, I can capture him for you… :) :P


You saw a very rare thing like double rainbow and wanna show it to your friends on facebook? I can do that for you dear…


At times there are few memories which can’t fade away…





At times rare moments which bring a smile on your face…





At times few sights which inspire you…





Whatever it might be, I am always there with you whenever you need me…

Monday, August 30, 2010

Frames of freedom



Written as a response to blogadda's Frames of freedom contest in association with Pringoo

Thursday, August 26, 2010

23 Questions

1- Get the closest book, go to page 18 and write the 4th line down.

Hmm... No physical books around... Let me get the closest e-book I can find… “And stop emailing me, Holly keeps asking who I’m writing to.” From Meg Cabot’s ‘Every boy’s got one’…


2- What’s the last thing you’ve watched on TV ?

“Dhee 4”- A dance show in telugu channel (E tv)…


3- Without checking, guess what time it is ?

11:40AM(Hmm... not a bad Guess)

4- Check, it is…

11:59AM


5- Outside of the computer noise, what do you hear ?

My team mates discussing about our project… I hate discussions always… I used to hate discussions after exam in college as well…

6- When you got out the last time, what did you do ?

Went to a take away restaurant to get food with my hubby…

7- What are you wearing ?

A formal mix and match outfit along with a shawl to prevent shivering in this too cold AC…

8- Before answering this questionnaire, what were you watching ?

I was watching my FB updates…

9- Did you dream last night ?

Yesterday night no dreams at all as I was dying to sleep… But had a Dracula range dream the previous night… But as in all my dreams, I won at the end…

10- When is the last time you laughed till you cried ?

A week ago when my uncle and dad played pranks on each other… (My grandpa wants to take me and my hubby to a relative where my dad don’t wanna come to… Dad asked uncle a suggestion to escape that… Uncle told that ‘one should have their own plans’ and not to involve him as he is also not willing to come… My grandpa asked dad to get the car and take us to relatives house… My dad escaped saying that he was sleepy and my uncle would take us instead… He he… Poor uncle… Should see his shocked face with my dad’s response…)

11- What is on the walls of the room you’re in ?

Nothing except a dull painted wall with glass windows and doors… Office building are always boring…

12- Did you see something strange today ?

Oh… I have seen a girl just resembling a Vampire with frizzy hair left free covering half of her face… Sharp and dark eyes… Defined and high prominent cheek bone… A face with no smile but a bit interesting…

13- What do you think of this questionnaire ?

Time pass and good break from work…

14- What’s the last movie you watched ?

Maryada ramanna…


15- Should you be multimillionnaire, what’s the first thing you would buy ?

A beautiful farm house (small duplex house surrounded by big garden, a small pond and few pets like peacock) but in center of the city…

16- Tell us something about you we don’t already know :

Hmm… I am selfish when it comes to love…

17- If you could change something in the world outside of culpability and politics, what would you change ?

May be I will try with its shape… ;) How would square earth be?? Or a triangle?? Ha ha…


18- Do you like to dance ?

Love to… But not when everyone is watching… :P

19- What would be your daughter’s name ?

Thrushna

20- And your son’s ?

Hmm… Not thought of…

21- Did you ever think of living abroad ?

Nope…

22- What would you want God to tell you when you’ll go through heaven’s gates ?

Welcome and from now you can live just for you…

23- Who are the 4 next victims for this questionnaire ?

Hmm… Volunteer yourself to be next victim… Post it on your blog or in comments…

Monday, July 12, 2010

An hour with a butterfly

I have been seeing movies in which butterflies come and sit on heroine’s hand and always wished if it was me… So, that I get to touch and feel the tenderness of butterfly… I don’t know what phenomenon they used - If they usually wait for butterfly to come and do that shot for them or if they will force it to do so somehow…

Saturday, I and meenu went to watch milenge milenge at 10AM… The movie was so small (2hrs) and we did not feel like going home so early… So, we went to lalbagh for taking few snaps…


I could get a good shot of a beautiful path with a couple who added up to the scene...


Found few beautiful bugs in the grass…


Chased them for around half an hour to get good macro shots of them…


Then we moved on to capture few butterflies… All of them literally made me run behind them without even posing for me once… I was wet with sweat by then and thought of giving up… Then meenu joked saying that- ‘Like Priyanka chopra in Love story 2050, just open your palm and call it with all your heart and it will come to you’… And I was like- ‘Come on madam, such things happen only in movies’…

There was one butterfly which was like a brown velvet cloth piece sitting calmly on some plant… I loved it so much as it was giving good poses for my camera… I took my camera so close to it to get a macro shot and finally disturbed it… It flew away, but it was moving just around me… Then I opened my palm just like that… And you don’t believe it, but it came and sat on my hand for 2 secs… It was so wonderful feeling… Butterfly was so tender and soft… It was just like a cool breeze touching my palm… I don’t know why but I was overwhelmed with happiness…


It again came and sat on another plant around me, and I continued its photo shoot… After few minutes it flew around and sat on my left shoulder… I could not believe that… Meenu was also so shocked and staring at it… I thought of having a snap with my darling and tried handling camera in my hand to meenu… But it did not stay longer than 10 secs and I missed such a wonderful snap… Anyway the feeling that left in my heart was so wonderful… I felt that we have some special bonding… (I am not kidding… I really had that feeling… You know…) I did not feel like leaving it and coming home… I felt like spending more time with it… I don’t know what it liked in me… Meenu guessed that it might be the pure white dress I was wearing… But that special feeling made my day… Such a lovely feeling I never ever experienced in my life…

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

A break from bugging office :)

Hmm… That was a lovely cloudy afternoon… I and my friend Meenakshi went for lunch to cafeteria and had to eat some non-sense stuff there having no other option… After a nice chat together and in such a lovely weather, we did not feel like going back to the office to break our heads with those boring boxes (oh! You might be calling them as computers)… Felt like going on a long drive… felt like having an ice cream too after such a tasteless lunch… But could not help going back to desk, after thinking about manager’s face once…

The work was bugging me so much and after sometime my brain went to sleep mode… Could not come back to active even after a small coffee break… So, I decided not to waste time and could not resist going out on a drive… I don’t have a bike… I was wondering if my colleague would lend me hers for an hour or so… She said ‘OK but take care’… That was fantastic… Took my camera (can never do without it) and went to meenu’s desk and pulled her out of office along with me… he he… I know… I disturbed her work too… But I don’t want to miss her company and also… I don’t want her to miss such fun as well…

I decided to show her a hill just behind a temple which I daily pass-by in my office cab… And also I always wanted to have a small photo shoot there…


We loved the place a lot… It was so calm and cool… No one else was there… We headed to top of that small hill from the temple where we parked our bike… Wow!!! We were speechless seeing the view of coconut trees like a green carpet from the top of that hill…


There was a huge water tank on top of that small hill around which a small path way was laid…


We tried to explore a bit of flora and fauna around that place…


I tried capturing a red and black Chameleon I never saw before but by the time I went there, it escaped into shrubs… Shit!!! I wish I had a DSLR camera… So that I would have zoomed and captured it before it would have escaped… I was damn angry on it for not smiling at my camera and decided I won’t take any portrait of it… Then just beside the rock from where it escaped there were these lovely wild flowers…


Then I saw another Chameleon which posed for my camera… Though it was not so colorful, I loved it as it gave me a nice look into my lens…


Not to mention that we ate yummy ice cream while returning back… Don’t be so jealous ok… But just take some time out of your busy schedules and do something which re-energizes you… It might be just a talk with close friend… It might be reading a book or painting something… But never get too mechanical…